Wellness

YOU CAN BUILD BONE DENSITY AT ANY AGE WITH STRENGTH TRAINING

I know this might be news to a lot of you…but you most definitely can improve your bone density in your hips and spine with strength training at any age…💪🏽


And I’d love to share with you the story of my 71 year old client who did just that…


THIS IS HER STORY:

Krystyna is a 71 year old woman who was told about 5 or 6 years ago that she had very low bone density and her GP wanted her to start taking Actonel (biphosphonate), which she obliged and took for about 5 or 6 months. This resulted in her getting stomach problems, so she was referred to a Gastroenterologist who prescribed her Nexium to deal with the stomach problems, which then gave her headaches. 😵‍💫

She stopped taking the Actonel and so her GP suggested injections every 6 months of Prolia, she had the first injection right there in the same appointment and felt pressured to do so. She then went home and read up on all the possible side effects (of which some are horrifying 🙈) and did not continue with any further treatment. When she told her GP this, her GP was panicked and told her that it would result in significant deterioration of her bones.

She has never been on Menopausal Hormone Therapy and since then she has only been taking Vitamin D3, Vitamin K2 and Calcium for her bone health.

She decided to start seeing an Exercise Physiologist back then for about one year which resulted in improvements of her bone density. Then Covid hit and she did no training at all for a year or two, just walking her dog.

Then at the start of 2023 she started training with me. We did 2 strength sessions per week for 45mins. Over the past year we have made one of those session a 60mins session to include some jump rope at the end. She also still walks her dog twice a day and is a keen gardener. I should add that she had 3 months off training whilst overseas towards the end of last year and still achieved these results.

She had her previous DEXA scan 2 years ago and then her repeat scan just last week. The results made her extremely happy!


Her spine went from a T-score of -1.9 to -1.6 which is a huge improvement (the lower the score, the better your bone density).

Her hips have always been so good that it’s never been an issue and she couldn’t remember the T-score but they’d also improved.

Only her forearms had gotten worse with a T-score of -1.9 to -2.5 (which has just dipped her into osteoporosis but she is still above average for her age group).


Now I know this is just one case study, but honestly, there are so many other women with the same story.

And the research shows that if you train close to failure CONSISTENTLY (this is the key) you can improve your bone density in your hips and spine.

Consistency can look like 2 or 3 times a week for the majority of the weeks of the year. 35-45mins is enough time to get an effective strength session in.

You can still skip the odd workout or have a one or two week holiday with no training in a year but the rest of the time you need to be training. 💪🏽


What helps improve bone density?
🦴 Consistent strength training close to failure
🦴 Jumping/impact exercises (ideally a mix of varied strength movements and jumping is best)
🦴 Eating a whole food diet with enough protein, vitamins and minerals
🦴 Consuming enough Calcium, Vitamin D3 & K2 (this can be in your diet or supplementation if needed)
🦴 Menopausal Hormone Therapy can slow down bone loss (Estrogen helps prevent bone loss but doesn’t build bone)

What can decrease bone density? 
📉 Ageing
📉 Lack of movement
📉 Under eating (your body will extract minerals from your bone if you are not consuming enough calcium)
📉 Smoking/vaping & regularly consuming more alcohol than the recommended average
📉 Hyperthyroidism

Of course, if you are genetically predisposed to Osteoporosis then that is a definite risk factor.
 

What gimmicks are sold to you claiming to help with bone density?
🚩 Walking in a weighted vest 👎🏽
🚩 Taking Creatine 👎🏽
🚩 Jumping on a mini trampoline 👎🏽
🚩 Testosterone supplementation 👎🏽
🚩 Progestogens (progesterone & progestins) 👎🏽

So what is the reality?

Consistently strength training at a challenging effort for yourself 2-3 times a week is enough, I’d recommend including an impact/jumping exercise (as long as it is pain free and you have adequate bladder control) into the program too at least once per week.

This could be in the form of a 5-10mins jump rope session which ticks your cardio box and your impact training box. 🐦🐦🪨

Make sure you’re eating a wholesome diet, get your bloods done yearly so you can see if you’re low on any vitamins or minerals.

Stop following Menopausal Dr’s/influencers who are using you as prey for their next sale. 🙅🏼‍♀️

 

And if you don’t know where to start with getting stronger or more mobile, here are some ways I can help:


These run frequently throughout the year.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

NOT EVERYONE HAS MOTIVATION AND THAT’S OK

I want to let you in on something that might feel a bit…relieving. 😮‍💨

Not all women are motivated to strength train or do mobility work - even when they KNOW it’s good for them.

And honestly? I get it. 🫶🏽

Knowing something is good for you doesn’t magically make it easy, enjoyable or feel like a priority when your life has a long to-do list, energy is low, hormones are doing their own thing, you may have additional health issues and motivation comes and goes like a fast car on a racetrack.


If just knowing was enough, we’d all be strength training three times a week, regularly doing mobility, going to bed on time and not doom scrolling at 11pm. 😵‍💫

But that’s not most people’s reality.

We all have different challenges and different levels of mental health. At the end of the day, discipline is what keeps us showing up. You have to really WANT to feel the difference in your body and make a conscious decision to make changes. And then find the discipline to keep going.


I guess motivation is discipline in motion.

The way I see it is that focusing on your end goal/feeling and thinking about what got you started in the first place is what will give you the discipline to keep showing up. 🫶🏽

I totally get that not everyone enjoys working out and some people may have negative emotions attached to exercise for various reasons. That’s exactly why I created my strength and mobility programs.

To help women create a more healthy and balanced relationship with working out. 🥰 


My programs aren’t about constantly pushing harder or forcing yourself to workout at maximum effort regardless of how you feel on the day.

They’re about:
🫶🏽 listening to your body
🫶🏽 following simple, doable, well structured sessions
🫶🏽 feeling better in your body, not punished by it
🫶🏽 building strength and mobility in a way that feels supportive
🫶🏽 creating consistency without relying on motivation


If you’ve ever thought, “I know I should be doing this, but…” - take a look at some of what I offer and see if I can help.

 

And if you don’t know where to start with getting stronger or more mobile, here are some ways I can help:


These run frequently throughout the year.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

SOME OF THESE MENOPAUSE INFLUENCERS ARE OFF THE CHARTS!

I want to talk about something that's been bothering me for a while…and if you're a woman in midlife, it’s probably been bothering you too.

There’s a growing wave of “menopause influencers” who make a living by preying on women’s insecurities.

They love labelling our body parts as ”flabby”, “menobelly”, “bingo wings”, “muffin top”, as if your perfectly normal body parts suddenly need a scary new label once you turn 40. And then…BOOM!💥 They have the perfect solution to sell you that will rid of said body part…

‼️SPOILER ALERT!‼️

…whatever they are selling will almost never give you the result they are promising you. Because they themselves didn’t look that way by using a certain method or a product, but that’s what they want you to believe.

Food for thought:
They more than likely have great genetics, workout 5+ times a week, do not have a 9-5, have a poor relationship with food and themselves. And may have addictive personalities that enable them to obsess over wanting to look a certain way and stay that way.


So next time you see yourself falling for a promise from an influencer who only sees you as a dollar sign 🤑…just remember this:

You can be healthy, strong, confident and thriving AND still have some body fat. 💁🏼‍♀️

In fact, body fat is normal…it’s necessary to have an amount of body fat as a woman. It doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong, or that your body has somehow “failed” you.


The messaging out there right now is wild! 🤯

And it’s only getting wilder, with the addition of SO MANY midlife influencers pushing GLP-1 medication onto perfectly healthy women who already look great. But they make you feel as though you need to lose those last 5kgs and walk around with a six pack and no body fat. 🤦🏼‍♀️

These drugs were made for people with Diabetes and those who are unhealthily overweight and struggling to get the weight off, not for women who just want to drop a few kilograms.


It just sends out the completely wrong message and reinforces what women have heard their whole lives…
that our weight and appearance = our worth!

What utter nonsense! 🙅🏼‍♀️

So here’s the truth I want you to hear today:

You don’t need to be smaller to be healthy.
You don’t need to change your body to be worthy.
And you definitely don’t need a medication designed for people with genuine medical needs just to match an influencer’s aesthetic and line her bank account 💰💰💰.


Health is about…

💪🏽 being strong

😃 feeling good

🤸🏼‍♀️ being able to move your body

😴 sleeping well (or as best you can through Menopause 😵‍💫)

🍽️ eating well

🥰 having a positive relationship with your body

This is why I’m so passionate about strength training for health & longevity, mobility training for health & longevity and creating sustainable habits. Not because they make you smaller…but because they make you…

✅ stronger

✅ more confident

✅ more capable

✅ more resilient

And because they help you feel more at home in your body - not at war with it.

So if you’ve felt pressure lately, I hope this email gives you a sigh of relief.

You are doing just fine! 🫶🏽

 

And if you don’t know where to start with getting stronger or more mobile, here are some ways I can help:


These run frequently throughout the year.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

THIS IS WHAT CONSISTENCY ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE

So I want to talk about something that most women in midlife don’t hear enough:

❤️ Taking a rest day off training or doing a lighter version of a workout doesn’t mean you’re failing yourself. It means you’re listening to your body and being kind to yourself. ❤️

In strength training - especially when you’re juggling
📉 hormones
😴 sleep
😵‍💫 stress
💼 work
👫 family
😮‍💨 and everything else - there will be days where your body is absolutely depleted of energy.


And here’s the thing:
Taking a rest day or going lighter in your workout is not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of wisdom.

One of the biggest mindset shifts I teach in my programs is learning to work WITH your body, not against it.

😃 Some days you’re lifting heavier, feeling strong and energetic.
🥱 Other days, your body needs a little extra recovery and less intensity.

🫶🏽 Both of those days count as being consistent.

❤️ Consistency isn’t doing every workout perfectly. Consistency is showing up for your body in the way it needs - even when what it needs is a rest day. ❤️


When you actually listen and give yourself permission to rest, you’re not losing progress.
🤗 You’re supporting it. 🤗

You’re reducing stress hormones, helping your muscles recover, and keeping your nervous system regulated.

And honestly, forcing a workout on a truly low-energy day often backfires - you move poorly, your form drops, and you end up feeling discouraged instead of energised. 😔


So next time you wake up feeling flat, heavy, tired, or “off,” ask yourself:
What does my body need today?

If the answer is rest…beautiful.
If the answer is a gentle walk…perfect.
If the answer is “I can lift, but maybe not at 100%,” then that’s your version of showing up. 💪🏽

❤️ Strength in midlife isn’t about pushing harder.

It’s about learning your own rhythms and training in a way that supports them. ❤️


🫶🏽 You are not inconsistent.
🫶🏽 You are not falling behind.
🫶🏽 You’re becoming stronger because you’re listening to your body and supporting it.

And I promise - that’s the kind of consistency that lasts a lifetime. 🤗

 

And if you don’t know where to start with getting stronger or more mobile, here are some ways I can help:


These run frequently throughout the year.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

ARE YOU GETTING 25g OF FIBRE DAILY?

I’m sure you’ve heard by now about the importance of fibre in midlife. And here’s why…👇🏽

Fibre isn’t just about digestion…

- it helps balance blood sugar

- support hormone health

- keeps cholesterol in check

- keeps you fuller for longer (which means less chance of reaching for the sugary snacks at 3pm 🍫).


The magic number to aim for? 25g per day.

Here’s an example of what that looks like in a day…

Breakfast: 2 slices of seeded wholegrain toast (6g) + 1/2 avocado (5g)

Snack: A small apple with a handful of almonds (5g)

Lunch: 1 cup of Lentil soup (7g)

Dinner: Grilled salmon with roasted veggies and a side of quinoa (6g)

That’s over 25g without having to try too hard! 🙌🏽


A couple of quick tips:

👉🏽 Swap white bread, rice, or pasta for wholegrain versions.
👉🏽 Add beans, lentils, or chickpeas to salads and soups.
👉🏽 Sprinkle chia seeds, flaxseeds, or hemp seeds onto breakfast bowls.


Small changes add up - and your gut, hormones, and energy levels will thank you for it. ✨

Here’s a quick reference list to help you quickly add more fibre to your day…🫶🏽

Lentils – 15g per cup (cooked)
Chickpeas – 12g per cup (cooked)
Black beans – 15g per cup (cooked)
Oats – 8g per cup (cooked)
Chia seeds – 5g per 1 tablespoon
Flaxseeds – 3g per 1 tablespoon
Almonds – 1g per 5 almonds
Apples (with skin) – 4g per medium apple
Pears (with skin) – 6g per medium pear
Mixed Berries – 8g per cup
Avocado – 10g per avocado
Broccoli – 5g per cup (cooked)
Carrots – 4g per cup (raw, chopped)
Sweet potato (with skin) – 4g per medium potato
Quinoa – 5g per cup (cooked)


You can download my HEALTHY MEAL PLANNER for some recipes to help inspire you to create brekkies, snacks and lunches that have enough fibre and protein to keep you hitting your goals!

OR

If you’re looking for more personalised guidance you can check out our CUSTOMISED NUTRITION PLAN where you work with a qualified Nutritionist to hit your goals. 🎯

 

And if you don’t know where to start with getting stronger or more mobile, here are some ways I can help:


These run frequently throughout the year.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

THE IMPORTANCE OF YOUR BREATH 🌬️

If your neck, back or ribcage often feels tight or stiff, I want you to try something for me…

🌬️ Diaphragmatic Breathing exercises 🌬️

The thing is, most of us spend our days breathing up into our neck and chest, especially when we’re stressed, busy, or focussed on an important task at our desk.

Over time, this shallow breathing makes the muscles around your ribs (your Intercostal muscles) and spine (Erector Spinae muscles) tighten up, while your Diaphragm (the muscle that facilitates breathing) can get tight and less efficient.

When that happens, your body compensates - usually through your lower back, neck, or ribs.


Diaphragmatic breathing reactivates your deep core and helps your ribs, spine, and pelvis move the way they’re meant to. It’s one of the simplest ways to release tension and improve your mobility.


You only need a few minutes a day to find out how such a small shift can create so much relief.

Feel free to download my FREE DIAPHRAGMATIC BREATHING GUIDE so you can start now.


So before you stretch your back again today…take a moment to start a breathing practice.

Your body will thank you for it. 🤗


 

And if you don’t know where to start with getting stronger or more mobile, here are some ways I can help:


These run frequently throughout the year.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

WHY MOVEMENT IS YOUR BEST MEDICINE 🤸🏼‍♀️

If I had a dollar for every time a client has said to me “my back is feeling so much better since I started doing your exercises regularly”, I’d be a very rich woman! 💰💰💰

Now I know that when you’re in pain, it can feel instinctive to stop moving - to rest, protect, and wait for things to get better

BUT…

here’s the truth: movement is often the best thing you can do to ease pain and help your body heal..


Here’s why:

🧴 It keeps your joints lubricated and less stiff…

💪🏽 It prevents muscles from weakening, which can make pain worse…

🩸 It boosts circulation, delivering nutrients that support healing…

🧘🏼‍♀️ It reduces stress and lifts your mood (your body’s natural pain relief!)…

🤸🏼‍♀️ It protects your long-term mobility, balance, and independence!


The key isn’t doing “more” or pushing through - it’s doing what you can, safely and consistently. Even small, gentle movements send powerful signals to your brain:

🧠 you are safe, you are strong, you can move.


When it comes to chronic pain, the pain signals over time can become so wired into your nervous system that the signals keep getting sent, even after the tissues have healed and when there is no longer any damage or harm being done to them.

This is particularly the time when it is important to reinforce good movement patterns and create stability, strength and mobility around the affected areas. To keep pain away in the long term! ✨


So instead of waiting for pain to disappear before you move… consider movement as part of the solution. Each breath, hip hinge, bridge or squat you do is an investment in a stronger, freer version of yourself. 💫

And if you are suffering from back pain and don’t know what to do, I’d highly recommend starting with your breath.

You can download my FREE Diaphragmatic Breathing Guide that can guide you to work on your breath. This will help improve the function of your core muscles to support your back better.

 

And if you don’t know where to start with getting stronger or more mobile, here are some ways I can help:


These run throughout the year and the next one starts 29th September.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

WHY THIS ONE MOVEMENT MATTERS AS YOU AGE…👌🏽

Here’s something I’d highly recommend making a priority in your life: your strength & mobility…and specifically, your ability to get up off the floor with ease.

Now, of course I don’t expect you to be able to jump up off the floor in this way but the sooner you start working on it, the sooner you’ll get better at it.


You might be of an age that you think you don’t need to worry about it yet, but this one skill becomes more and more important as we age and also more and more challenging too.

Being able to lower yourself down and get back up again is directly linked to your independence, your confidence, and your long-term quality of life.


The good news? It’s never too late to improve. You don’t need to do it perfectly, and you certainly don’t need to compare yourself to anyone else. Just start with what you can do right now, and build on that little by little.

Every bit of progress you make adds up to a stronger, more capable version of yourself…the kind of strength that ensures you’ll never find yourself stuck on the floor.


So today, why not test it? Lower yourself down safely (making sure you’ve got something or someone nearby to help you back up if you think you’ll need it), see how you go getting up, and notice what feels easy versus what feels sticky. Then start practicing regularly. Your future self will thank you.


And if you don’t know where to start with getting stronger or more mobile, here are some ways I can help:


These run throughout the year and the next one starts 29th September.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

IS IT MENOPAUSE OR IS IT AGEING? 🧐

Firstly, you need to be aware that there are many people (more than I can keep track of and mostly women which is sad) trying to monetise menopause and profit off you.

The way they do this is by telling you ALL the bad things that you’ll experience during Perimenopause and they might tell you their experience during Perimenopause and what “has helped them”. They’ll put fear in you about muscle loss, bone density loss and weight gain. And they’ll do it all convincingly to build your trust and then BOOM!💥 They’ll sell you the “solution” to your problems. 💰💰💰

❗️This is Marketing 101❗️

And sure you could say, but Mary, you are selling something too and profiting off women who sign up to your programs. And I’d say, YES! But the difference is I’m selling my precious time, my years and years of knowledge / expertise / figuring out what works. I’m selling a strategy that has been backed by science a million times over and is about the only solid thing proven to:

😃 make you feel better
📈 improve your health
💪🏽 maintain your muscle mass
🩻 maintain your bone density


It’s a program, it’s a direct line to me to help you be the healthiest, strongest version of yourself, regardless of Menopause.

It’s not a product and I don’t use fear mongering to confuse and stress you out to sign up to my offerings. I tell you what works, I am empathetic about your journey, I care, I put thousands of hours into giving away free information and answering every comment or message I get on social media.

A lot of the messaging out there is to say that if you’re not taking every supplement under the sun you’re going to die young or have brittle bones etc. 😏 Which is rubbish! 🚮

A lot of symptoms that have been put down to Menopause are just symptoms of ageing.

The truth of the matter is that we’re all ageing. That is undeniable! We will ALL experience changes in our bodies, in how we feel, in our energy levels. This is NORMAL, NOT something to be feared. 🫶🏽

There is no magic pill to fix this (although you never know if one day science will make us all immortal 😅).

Even taking HRT isn’t always a positive experience for many. Some feel worse on it, others find it makes a huge difference to how they feel.

It’s totally ok to do what you can to feel better but just keep in mind you may not feel like you did when you were in your 20’s and you most definitely are not going to look like you did in your 20’s and that’s ok!

If you keep chasing this idea that something out there is going to make you feel better then I’d encourage you to start focusing on what YOU can do to help make you feel better.

Here are some basics to start with:

💪🏽 Strength training 2-3x a week

🍽️ Eating a well balanced diet including at least 1.6g/kg of bodyweight (or your goal bodyweight) of protein and 25g of fibre daily.

🚶🏼‍♀️ Cardio/walking/moving your body at least 3Omins of the day.

📉 If weight loss is in your goals then you need to be in a calorie deficit (but not undereating).

🛌 Getting at least 7 hours of sleep

🚰 Drinking enough water


So you need to be doing ALL of this consistently before considering that what you’re doing isn’t working. Or looking for alternative measures. 👀

Remember muscle is your best friend as you age! Doing whatever you can to hold onto muscle is the number one key. 🔑

If you don’t know where to start with strength training, here are some ways I can help:


These run throughout the year and the next one starts 29th September.


You can jump into my YOUR MOOV Strength Program anytime.


The focus is on diaphragmatic breathing and building core stability while improving overall mobility.

SHE DIDN’T NEED TO STOP MOVING, SHE NEEDED TO START 💫

So I had this conversation with one of my clients the other day who’s been training with me for a few weeks…she’d been away on holiday in Thailand for a couple of weeks and said how her knees felt great while she was away doing a lot of walking around (before she started training with me her knees would have caused her pain from the walking).

The last few days of her holiday involved chilling in a hammock reading, with less movement and she noticed her knees and back were more achey then.

She’d been suffering from knee pain (arthritis) and back pain before seeing me in the studio and had noticed after a few sessions with me how much less achey and painful she felt.


She’s one of many clients who always notice a reduction in their pain levels when they’re doing a regular strength workout practice (even if it’s only bodyweight movements). 
 

Another client who started moving to reduce her pain.


Building muscle and strength is the best thing for your joints and overall longevity. And the good news is:
 

  • you don’t have to “lift heavy”

  • it’s not as complicated as a lot of social media make it seem

  • you don’t need any past experience with strength training

  • starting with just your body weight is highly recommended

 

And if you’re looking for a guided kickstart to your strength journey, my 4-week Functional Strength Challenge is the perfect place to start…🤗

 

This challenge is all about building the kind of strength that makes everyday life easier, your joints feel better, and your body feel like yours again.


It’s designed for women who are:

  • Sick of cookie-cutter workouts

  • Over wasting time on stuff that doesn’t work

  • Sick of signing up to Challenges that don't suit your needs or capability level

  • Ready to feel strong, capable, and supported


Whether you’ve trained before or you’re starting fresh, I’ve got you covered. You’ll get a well thought out strength program, real-time support, and no fluff — just workouts that work, in a way that fits into your life.
 

And trust me,I know they work because I follow my strength program myself. 💪🏽
 

🗓 These Challenges run throughout the year and the next one starts 29th September 2025 (Preview Week 22nd September).

✅ 4 weeks of progressive, functional strength training

📲 Delivered via an app — do it anywhere, anytime

🫶 Accountability + guidance from me every step of the way
 

I know starting can feel like the hardest part, but you don’t need to be “more ready.” You just need to begin.
 

👀 See what the Challenge is all about…

If you don’t want to wait until the next Challenge then you can jump into my full strength program anytime…